SEL Lessons

Assertive, Passive, or Aggressive? Ages 10-12, no prep ready to use

Ages 10–12Instant downloadPrintable PDF

A ready-to-use printable lesson for ages 10–12 focused on friendship, communication and conflict repair. Includes PDF files for print-and-use access.

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A ready-to-download printable PDF resource with the pages shown in the product preview.

Who it’s for

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Parents, Teachers, School counselors, Therapists · Ages 10–12

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About this resource

Ready to print and use.

Designed for real-life work on assertive, passive or aggressive, this ready-to-use SEL lesson for ages 10–12 helps adults guide a focused conversation. Children explore social cues, communication choices and practical steps for resolving or repairing peer difficulties. Use it for classroom SEL, school counseling, homeschool instruction or a focused small-group lesson.

WHAT'S INCLUDED

• The complete lesson materials focused on assertive, passive or aggressive • Instruction and activity pages described below • Print-ready PDF pages shown in the listing images

NO PREP- READY TO USE

Lesson Goals (for students) Students will: • Recognize three common ways people communicate under stress • Notice differences between staying quiet, speaking up calmly, and reacting strongly • Practice identifying responses without labeling them as “good” or “bad” • Reflect on which style they use under pressure and which they want to practice more

Skills Supported • Emotional awareness • Perspective-taking • Assertive communication • Boundary awareness • Self-reflection under stress • Impulse control & response choice

Materials Included (aligned with visuals) Communication Style Visuals (Passive / Assertive / Aggressive) Social & Provocation Scenario Cards Response Sorting Activity Reflection Page: Which style do I use under stress?

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For use by one purchaser in their own home, classroom, counseling office or therapy practice. Files may not be shared, redistributed, resold or uploaded to shared drives or public websites.

How to use it

Start small, then adapt from the response.

  1. Preview the pages and choose one manageable activity for the current need.
  2. Print or use the resource alongside calm, supportive adult guidance.
  3. Notice what helped and repeat or adapt the activity without forcing disclosure.
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