Skills this printable supports
- Thought awareness
- Cognitive reframing
- Self-compassion
Helpful Self-Talk
Children learn to notice an unhelpful thought, check whether it tells the whole story, and create a kinder statement that is believable rather than falsely positive.
For educational and skill-practice use. This resource does not replace individualized assessment or treatment.
How to use it
- Write the thought exactly as it appears.
- Look for missing facts or an all-or-nothing word.
- Write a balanced response you could actually believe.
Helpful discussion prompts
- What would you say to a friend?
- Is this thought always true?
- What is a more complete version of the story?
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