SafeSEL guides

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More practical, evidence-informed guidance for the real emotional and social situations children face.

Anxiety & Worry · 6 min read

When a Child Worries That a Parent Will Be Late for Pickup

Practical steps for when a child worries that a parent will be late for pickup: what to notice, what to say, and how to build a safer, more usable

Social Skills & Friendship · 10 min read

Consent and Personal Space in Childhood Friendships

Practical, developmentally respectful guidance on consent and personal space in childhood friendships, with examples, decision steps, adult language,

Anxiety & Worry · 6 min read

When a Child Worries About Being Late: A Plan That Builds Flexibility

Practical guidance on when a child worries about being late. Learn what to notice, what to say, and how to build a safer, more usable

Social Skills & Friendship · 10 min read

Digital Friendship Boundaries for Ages 9–12: Messaging, Group Chats, and Privacy

Practical, developmentally respectful guidance on digital friendship boundaries for ages 9–12: messaging, group chats, and privacy, with examples, decision

Anxiety & Worry · 6 min read

When a Child Arrives at an Activity but Cannot Walk In

Practical guidance on when a child arrives at an activity but cannot walk in. Learn what to notice, what to say, and how to build a safer, more usable

CBT Tools for Kids · 6 min read

Catastrophizing After a School Mistake: A Step-by-Step Response

Practical, developmentally respectful guidance on catastrophizing after a school mistake: a step-by-step response, with examples, decision points, adult

Anxiety & Worry · 7 min read

When Fire Drills and Alarms Trigger Intense Anxiety at School

Practical steps for when fire drills and alarms trigger intense anxiety at school: what to notice, what to say, and how to build a safer, more usable

Social Skills & Friendship · 6 min read

Mind Reading in Friendships: Helping Children Check Assumptions

Practical, developmentally respectful guidance on mind reading in friendships: helping children check assumptions, with examples, decision points, adult

Anxiety & Worry · 7 min read

When Bedtime Becomes a Chain of “What If?” Questions

Practical guidance on when bedtime becomes a chain of “what if?” questions. Learn what to notice, what to say, and how to build a safer, more usable

CBT Tools for Kids · 6 min read

All-or-Nothing Thinking in Schoolwork: What Adults Can Say

Practical, developmentally respectful guidance on all-or-nothing thinking in schoolwork: what adults can say, with examples, decision points, adult language,

Anxiety & Worry · 6 min read

What to Do When a Child Is Anxious Before Birthday Parties

Practical steps for what to do when a child is anxious before birthday parties: what to notice, what to say, and how to build a safer, more usable

CBT Tools for Kids · 6 min read

How to Test a Perfectionistic Rule With a Small Behavioral Experiment

Practical, developmentally respectful guidance on how to test a perfectionistic rule with a small behavioral experiment, with examples, decision points,

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