SafeSEL guides

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More practical, evidence-informed guidance for the real emotional and social situations children face.

Anxiety & Worry · 8 min read

What to Do When Anxiety Spikes After a Change of Plans

Practical guidance on what to do when anxiety spikes after a change of plans. Learn what to notice, what to say, and how to build a safer, more usable

CBT Tools for Kids · 6 min read

When a Child Is Too Upset to Complete a Thought Record

Practical, developmentally respectful guidance on when a child is too upset to complete a thought record, with examples, decision points, adult language, and

Anxiety & Worry · 6 min read

How to Help a Child Who Is Afraid to Use the School Bathroom

Practical steps for how to help a child who is afraid to use the school bathroom: what to notice, what to say, and how to build a safer, more usable

CBT Tools for Kids · 6 min read

How to Shift From “I Need to Know” to “I Can Cope Without Certainty”

Practical, developmentally respectful guidance on how to shift from “i need to know” to “i can cope without certainty”, with examples, decision points, adult

Anxiety & Worry · 7 min read

Anticipatory Anxiety Before Medical or Dental Appointments

Practical steps for anticipatory anxiety before medical or dental appointments: what to notice, what to say, and how to build a safer, more usable

Anxiety & Worry · 6 min read

Possibility vs. Probability: Helping Children Evaluate a Worry

Practical, developmentally respectful guidance on possibility vs. probability: helping children evaluate a worry, with examples, decision points, adult

Anger & Behavior · 6 min read

When a Child Yells at a Parent but Calms Down With Everyone Else

Practical steps for when a child yells at a parent but calms down with everyone else: what to notice, what to say, and how to build a safer, more usable

CBT Tools for Kids · 6 min read

How to Teach the Difference Between a Thought and a Fact

Practical, developmentally respectful guidance on how to teach the difference between a thought and a fact, with examples, decision points, adult language,

Anger & Behavior · 6 min read

When a Child Threatens to Quit After One Difficult Moment

Practical steps for when a child threatens to quit after one difficult moment: what to notice, what to say, and how to build a safer, more usable

Social Skills & Friendship · 6 min read

A Close Friendship vs. a Controlling Friendship in Children

Practical, developmentally respectful guidance on a close friendship vs. a controlling friendship in children, with examples, decision points, adult

Anger & Behavior · 6 min read

When a Child Explodes Because a Sibling Touched Their Belongings

Practical steps for when a child explodes because a sibling touched their belongings: what to notice, what to say, and how to build a safer, more usable

Social Skills & Friendship · 6 min read

Peer Conflict Mediation vs. Adult Investigation: Which Is Needed?

Practical, developmentally respectful guidance on peer conflict mediation vs. adult investigation: which is needed?, with examples, decision points, adult

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