SafeSEL guides

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More practical, evidence-informed guidance for the real emotional and social situations children face.

Anger & Behavior · 7 min read

When Waiting Triggers Yelling, Pushing, or Leaving

Practical guidance on when waiting triggers yelling, pushing, or leaving. Learn what to notice, what to say, and how to build a safer, more usable

Social Skills & Friendship · 6 min read

Bullying vs. Rough Play: Questions Adults Should Ask

Practical, developmentally respectful guidance on bullying vs. rough play: questions adults should ask, with examples, decision points, adult language, and

Anger & Behavior · 7 min read

What to Do When a Child Becomes Furious After Hearing “No”

Practical steps for what to do when a child becomes furious after hearing “no”: what to notice, what to say, and how to build a safer, more usable

Social Skills & Friendship · 5 min read

Friendship Skills for Ages 10–12: Loyalty, Privacy, and Changing Groups

Practical, developmentally respectful guidance on friendship skills for ages 10–12: loyalty, privacy, and changing groups, with examples, decision points,

Anger & Behavior · 6 min read

How to Respond to Revenge Talk After a Friendship Conflict

Practical steps for how to respond to revenge talk after a friendship conflict: what to notice, what to say, and how to build a safer, more usable

Social Skills & Friendship · 5 min read

Friendship Skills for Ages 7–9: Flexibility, Fairness, and Handling “No”

Practical, developmentally respectful guidance on friendship skills for ages 7–9: flexibility, fairness, and handling “no”, with examples, decision points,

Anger & Behavior · 9 min read

How to Respond When a Child Becomes Angry After Screen Time Ends

Practical steps for how to respond when a child becomes angry after screen time ends: what to notice, what to say, and how to build a safer, more usable

Social Skills & Friendship · 5 min read

Friendship Skills for Ages 4–6: Joining, Sharing Space, and Simple Repair

Practical, developmentally respectful guidance on friendship skills for ages 4–6: joining, sharing space, and simple repair, with examples, decision points,

Anger & Behavior · 7 min read

Door Slamming During Anger: Safety, Boundaries, and Repair

Practical guidance on door slamming during anger. Learn what to notice, what to say, and how to build a safer, more usable

Anger & Behavior · 10 min read

Repair After Anger: A Practical Guide for Children and Adults

Practical, developmentally respectful guidance on repair after anger: a practical guide for children and adults, with examples, decision points, adult

Anger & Behavior · 7 min read

Anger After Feeling Misunderstood: How Adults Can Slow the Escalation

Practical guidance on anger after feeling misunderstood. Learn what to notice, what to say, and how to build a safer, more usable

Anger & Behavior · 12 min read

Rebuilding Trust After Repeated Angry Outbursts

Practical, developmentally respectful guidance on rebuilding trust after repeated angry outbursts, with examples, decision points, adult language, and safety

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