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More practical, evidence-informed guidance for the real emotional and social situations children face.

Possibility vs. Probability: Helping Children Evaluate a Worry
Anxiety & Worry · 5 min read

Possibility vs. Probability: Helping Children Evaluate a Worry

A practical, evidence-informed guide to possibility vs. probability, with concrete examples, accessible next steps, and clear limits on what the guidance can establish.

When a Child Yells at a Parent but Calms Down With Everyone Else
Anger & Behavior · 5 min read

When a Child Yells at a Parent but Calms Down With Everyone Else

Practical guidance for responding when a child yells at a parent but calms down with everyone else, with a clear first step, realistic adult language, and functional measures of progress.

How to Teach the Difference Between a Thought and a Fact
CBT Tools for Kids · 5 min read

How to Teach the Difference Between a Thought and a Fact

A practical guide to teaching the difference between a thought and a fact, with realistic steps, language adults can use, and ways to judge whether the plan is helping.

When a Child Threatens to Quit After One Difficult Moment
Anger & Behavior · 5 min read

When a Child Threatens to Quit After One Difficult Moment

Practical guidance for responding when a child threatens to quit after one difficult moment, with a clear first step, realistic adult language, and functional measures of progress.

A Close Friendship vs. a Controlling Friendship in Children
Social Skills & Friendship · 6 min read

A Close Friendship vs. a Controlling Friendship in Children

A practical, evidence-informed guide to a close friendship vs. a controlling friendship in children, with concrete examples, accessible next steps, and clear limits on what the guidance can establish.

When a Child Explodes Because a Sibling Touched Their Belongings
Anger & Behavior · 6 min read

When a Child Explodes Because a Sibling Touched Their Belongings

Practical guidance for responding when a child explodes because a sibling touched their belongings, with a clear first step, realistic adult language, and functional measures of progress.

Peer Conflict Mediation vs. Adult Investigation: Which Is Needed?
Social Skills & Friendship · 5 min read

Peer Conflict Mediation vs. Adult Investigation: Which Is Needed?

A practical, evidence-informed guide to peer conflict mediation vs. adult investigation, with concrete examples, accessible next steps, and clear limits on what the guidance can establish.

When Waiting Triggers Yelling, Pushing, or Leaving
Anger & Behavior · 5 min read

When Waiting Triggers Yelling, Pushing, or Leaving

Practical guidance for responding when waiting triggers yelling, pushing, or leaving, with a clear first step, realistic adult language, and functional measures of progress.

Bullying vs. Rough Play: Questions Adults Should Ask
Social Skills & Friendship · 5 min read

Bullying vs. Rough Play: Questions Adults Should Ask

A practical, evidence-informed guide to bullying vs. rough play, with concrete examples, accessible next steps, and clear limits on what the guidance can establish.

What to Do When a Child Becomes Furious After Hearing “No”
Anger & Behavior · 5 min read

What to Do When a Child Becomes Furious After Hearing “No”

Practical guidance for responding when a child becomes furious after hearing “no”, including what to observe, what adults can say, and how to adjust support without adding shame.

Friendship Skills for Ages 10–12: Loyalty, Privacy, and Changing Groups
Social Skills & Friendship · 5 min read

Friendship Skills for Ages 10–12: Loyalty, Privacy, and Changing Groups

A practical, evidence-informed guide to friendship skills for ages 10–12, with concrete examples, accessible next steps, and clear limits on what the guidance can establish.

How to Respond to Revenge Talk After a Friendship Conflict
Anger & Behavior · 5 min read

How to Respond to Revenge Talk After a Friendship Conflict

A practical guide to responding to revenge talk after a friendship conflict, with realistic steps, language adults can use, and ways to judge whether the plan is helping.

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